You have to hook him with your unique personality. A Scorpio man has a thing for you if he comes on strong and starts digging into your personal life to learn more about you. Contacting you, especially after a period of not talking, is a huge sign he misses you. Everything will be more intense—the way he stares at you, his expectation of loyalty and yes, the tests!
A Scorpio is vengeful and will strike when you least expect it. If you want to give a Scorpio man a little taste of his own medicine when he ignores you, go ahead and live your life as fully as you can and post about it on social media. The key is to keep your independence and not show the Scorpio man that he gets to you when he does. The best way to handle a Scorpio man, though, is with your eyes wide open, before things get beyond your control.
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They have a tendency to read more into things that are there, so even the smallest things might cause them to start doubting and start asking questions.
Scorpio men often play games in relationships, usually to test whether you are being entirely honest with him.
He might try and catch you out in a lie. And for him, omitting to say something is as good as being dishonest. While he is not actively testing you, his sharp tongue and cutting wit may often feel like a test. He will be worried if you get upset easily, as he wants someone who can handle his often spiky personality. Scorpio men are snoops. They have a need to know everything, and they also tend to get suspicious when they feel like people are hiding things from them.
This might involve using information that he does know to try and catch you out on a lie, or showing up unexpectedly to see if you are doing what you said you would be doing. The only way to pass this kind of test is to be honest, and try not to omit information that you know he would be interested in. He sees this as being little better than a lie.
Needless to say the games began almost immediately after the first session. He backed completely away. No calls. And when I called him, he'd blow me off. Little things that he would go out his way to do for me, ceased. Taurus female Divorced falling for a Scorpio man by: Anonymous So ive known this scorpio for like a month now..
I want to get to know more about him, but i cant seem to get him to ask me for a day out.!!?? He makes me feel so safe and happy when I am with him. The sex is great. He is so nice and loving when he is with me, but I feel he is so cold to me when we are not seeing together. I am always the one text him first. I do everything to please him as much as I can. I got hurt a lot before so I am really worried if it is just fling to him. I asked him after a month we go out that if he just want a fling with me or something.
He told me that it is a fling than he wouldn't keep seeing after the first time we slept together, but everything need time. He sometimes tease me by making me jealous about how girls fall for him and stuffs. I am so depress with this relationship but at the same time, I like this guy a lot. I am really patient with him, he seems to open up to me a little better now. He once told me that I am one of the rare people that make he feel comfortable. He changed his flight time early so he could see me, and he told me that i have to feel special cause he doesn't normally do this to anyone.
When i am with him, i feel like i have him, but when we are not, he make me feel so cold. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me please!!! Virgo female with scorpio boyfriend by: Anonymous ok so i've been doing alot of researching on scorpios and they are so hard to really figure out. I'm currently dating a scorpio and I need advice on what's going on with him.
I was so excited about dating him because he has a really unique personality and I get along with him really well. He couldn't stopkissing me and he was just so sweet to me,more than any other guy I've ever dated! But I really don't think he's that type. I'm scared so fully like fall for him because I really don't know if he would feel the same about me, but I did tell him that I was starting to have serious feelings for him and I felt like I might have scared him but I know scorpios like when you're honest with them about your feelings and everything else.
He just replied with I hadn't scared him or anything by telling him that and that he didn't wanna rush things and go too fast with the relationship and that hwas kinda serious me telling him that and that he felt that would be taking the next step in the relationship and that he wants to make sure I really feel that way about him.
I really am serious about him and he drives me wild because he's soooo incredibly sweet, he gives me this really good feeling, something I've never gotten before with any of my ex's, so it's new to me.
But I've noticed lately he hasn't been texting me as much or anything, I'm kinda confused because the otherday he was being sweet but we've also gotten into it a few times this last week over dumb little things. Virgo female with scorpio boyfriend CONT I feel pretty much like im just a girl nothing special to him. I'm still super sweet to him but he kinda crossed the line by telling me about her and how she was in the bed I don't get him I feel like hes really playing mind games with me.
I don't like it, I'm honestly kinda fed up with it and i'm starting to wonder if i should end it or just hang in there and just tell him how i feel. I need advice anyone! Ive been with my scorpio man for almost 7 months now.. I once asked my man if he would tell it to my face if he doesnt love me anymore and he said yes. This Pisces is fed up! My issue is I have a male best friend who is a scorpio and he plays the mind games where he acts like he has deeper feelings for me.
He has even kissed me before and I was like.. Ohhh okay!. Nothing has become of this and being a friend is easier, trust me.
BUT his focus on things, and his distraction are driving me nuts. He has asked for a lift home when he didn't have his car. I waited and waited for his call, texted him to ask when he would be ready. Wasted an entire morning only to find out he had worked out another ride. He never told me Or he will disappear for a few days and suddenly show up like nothing happened. Im finding this relationship to be tiring and I don't know if I should back off and disappear?
It hurts to know how much I am always there for him with that huge pisces heart, but he just takes it for granted. Thank you! Sag woman in Love? We met online and then in person. About 2 days later,I was at his apt,we played board games,drank,and when it was time for bed he gave me his room and slept on the couch. None of this deterred him,20 min after that,we had sex and it last for at least a few hours until I had to leave. The next day,I told him about another guy I had been seeing prior to mtg him and he decides that I have too many men in my life and says we can just be friends bc he ddnt think he would be able to trust me,eventhough I had been nothing but honest with him.
So I got pissed and walked out,we ddnt talk for a week until he invited me over. Another great weekend ensues and we begin to talk somewhat regularly. Long story short,we have several things in common including wanting to settle down and get married. His mind games include,not speaking to me for days at a time. I told him how I felt about him and he told me dont expect reciprocity of feelings bc I could walk awy and he wouldn't care.
I am a very emotional Sag,so all this back and forth crap is driving me crazy! He knows this about me,so I don't know if he is using my emotions against me bc they are my weakness or what. Bottom line I am getting fed up! I would really love to see where we could go,but I can't with this game playing. I have been since we were kids. It took 7 years for us to finally start talking relationship wise. He mad me so happy when we were together but then he started going out of town a lot with friends.
So I cheated on him and I regret it very much. I was confused about his feelings about me. So I left him and now be is back with his ex girlfriend. He came to my house a few days ago and we made love. I feel horrible! I'm just hoping some day we get back together. Mind Games by: Spyce girl Scorpio men sit up at night trying to figure out how to get the best of everyone and everything.
When he's being nice and wanting to get close it's when he needs nurturing. Once he gets it he goes back to his scheming and planning. It's him against the world. My Scorpio man has been in my life for years and we moved from friends to lovers quickly. But he gives me hot and cold. I do my own thing and it drives him nuts. When he tries to pull me back he says amazing things that thrill me to the core. But I can never pull him back.
He's just conquering the world and comes back when he needs to be held and love. My advice: if your scorp tells you he loves you, he's thought long and hard about it. He means it beyond words. He won't cheat unless you pick at him and threaten to leave. That scares him. Being abandoned by his woman is scary. So he'll cheat to get back at you. If you love the scorp you gotta be patient and learn how to do you when he's off conquering the world.
He is constantly complimenting me and always say he wants me but then when I ask him what I am to him he says we are just friends. When we are talking face to face he says and acts totally different, as if he is enamored by me We argue sometimes about feelings and how he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but neither do I and he is constantly assuming I do. He knows this and we talk about feelings all the time.
Sometimes he answers, sometimes he doesn't. I feel like he listens to me bc when I don't text him or call he'll text me saying he's thinking of me. He's opened up to me, told me he'd be upset if I stopped talking to him, always nice to me and telling me how beautiful I am.
I can't seem to believe him bc then there are days where he wont talk to me at all which is cool bc I am constantly being occupied but I can't seem to get over him. I don't know what to do and I just want to know if he genuinely likes me like I like him. I wish I could say more but everything is always positive when it comes to him, just the hot and cold act of not answering or not letting me know how he really feels.
I need all the help I can get because at this point as much as I like him, I'm so close to giving up. First I rarely make a relationship decision based on someone's sign. I think there is a bit of missing information. I am a very self contained person and guarded.
I do always think about things until I see multiple angles.. I am very cautious and practiced about the people in my life and the more imaginative the sex the more I like it. I am fiercely loyal and dedicated to a fault and if you cross me it's lights out.
I also am very empathetic to others however I do not handle weaknesses well. I believe a weakness is a sign of vulnerability and neither are allowed in my world. Also I believe if you can't control yourself and work towards overcoming weaknesses and fears there is nothing I can do for you.
I will however help anyone anyway I can. The information that I think is missing is how to get to a Scorpio. Being intuitive about people is a double edged sword. If you want to date a Scorpio being upfront and honest is your only option. One hint of deception and typically I'm done.
People who struggle to stay on their feet are a rough read but those who get up everyday and fight the good fight I can be very Supportive and encouraging of. I am a deep thinker and appreciate a challenging conversation. I need depth and an open mind that's willing to grow and explore with me. Emotionally I am not your over the top hugger, cuddler or snuggler.
That said if I tell you I care for you, I care for you in every way. If I tell you that I love you I will love you for life. Getting to a Scorpio isn't about playing head games.
If you feel you are being played look at the situation again. Your Scorpio is trying to figure out something. Maybe they are trying to figure out an emotional response you gave or a look. Or just thinking about the next step. We are meticulous planners and very controlled. Finding themselves lost in a new person requires a lot of planning and thinking.
We may not send flowers or sing songs, but we do something else. We stand for you. We will take a hiit for you, we will protect you and we will fight for you. All we ask in return is loyalty, dedication and trust in return. We need to know that when we are pulling a dagger from our back your fingerprint is not on it. Scorpions are very strategic everyday is a battle field and we need to know where you stand no matter how many times we ask you.
May the Lord bless you and keep you should you ever betray us or abandon us. I am pisces boy, Lately we keep breaking up cause he is trying to control my every move and gets really moody if i go see my friends, i havent made any new friends in all this time and now im like a house wife just cooking and cleaning for him as he 'finds it hard' yeah right.
Does he like me or hate me? I'm a Pisces moon so I'm a bit psychic and I never said it back because that part of me knew he wasn't honest. Anyway, he never talks to me anymore but he checks me out and stares at me whenever he gets the chance.
When I see him I get this weird feeling and I can't stop thinking about him. When he's near me he seems jittery and like he's showing off. But he never says anything. Also he stared into my eyes for a long time three times. I really want to know what's going on. Scorpio man has gone after I gave him a second chance! We arranged to meet a few days later for a drink I remember I kept him waiting for at least an hour whilst I got ready.
I finally met him and when our eyes met I knew he was the one for me ,weird I know it was love at 1st sight for me we spent the whole day and evening to walking taking going for dinner and drinks as far as 1st dates go it was fantastic never thought I would meet anyone who was on the same wavelength as me.
He said he would call me the following day but never did however I could see him back on the same website I found him on! I tried to make contact via text and phone no response so I just thought oh we'll I had a good time and best I put I'd down to exsperiance. Like a fool I gave him a second change as I thought I have to give him the benefit of the doubt he seemed to really into me with him every day calling my work , waiting outside my work constant calling and coming to take me out after work all of this was very indearing Then we said he had to talk his parents for the weekend as they are elderly not a call on his return even I tried to call him his phone was off!
Then he finally sent a text message after a week and said he couldn't handle a relationship!! I was with him 5 years it starts telling me all these lies because he wants to leave me. We were suppose to get married he broke my ehart into when I found out that he left me I am 47 for a 24 year old temp girl of his at work where we all work together this has decistated me I have lost form to pounds.
I been thrown in jail by them and had police called on me cause i want to actually hurt them both. He still lies says they are not together even though i been to their house and seen it with my own eyes, He left telling me he loved me but so many lies and he has cheated but I am still in love with him madly but now i been so hurt he wont talk to me or akowledge me at all he treats me like crap as 6 months has went by still can not be friends and now i am with a new man what should I do pursue this scorpio man or just let him go with the hoe and be happy.
It has been 4 days I gave up the chase I am feed up please give me advice i need it badly Leo and Scorpio by: hopefulromantic These comments showed me that Im not alone in the scorpio world We met months ago but only after 3 years of him admiring me from afar.. But he did come to my home, sweep me off my feet with his intense sensuality and always gives me something to remember him by He does not date me, nor get involved in my life.
He remains distant yet when we are together he says, I make him want to be a better man and he is trying I am very independent and agreed that we would just have a love affair with no strings I can not resist loving him. Our chemistry is amazing When I ask for more He told me he is afraid of getting hurt and that the intensity of what we have is confusing him He cant seem to find the balance of chasing his career and not getting sidetracked from this love affair with a lioness.
He said his career comes first and he didnt seek a relationship Well, after months of this back and forth and me not being clingy or needy
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